So, I’ve been thinking-And that is a good thing, because sometimes I don’t think.Really. There are times I’ll just sit pretty, and look thoughtful, but not a thought crosses my mind. Zilch. Nada. Nazing. For minutes on end. It used to scare me but I got used to it now. I know it seems like I’m busy glorifying this weird trait, but trust me I’m not, I’m embarrassed-really. I just glow in humiliation.
Before I further humiliate myself, where were we ? Oh, yeah, I’ve been thinking. The key words here being been and thinking. That means that not only have I been thinking, but that I’ve been thinking continuously (I’m I smart or what?). I know it’s a tad difficult to picture me thinking continuously, but please force yourself.What was she thinking about?
Well wonder no more. Man-spreading is what. Picture this. You wake up very early. Who I’m I kidding. You wake up an hour past your alarm. You have to choose between taking a 2 minute shower and fixing yourself black coffee with too much sugar; but because you’re super woman, you manage to do all this in the said two minutes. What to wear? All your clothes are dirty, save for that skimpy black dress which shows too much cleavage.You throw it on and give yourself a 1 second lecture on why you should change and start doing laundry every weekend like the good woman you are.Who will marry you now? But do you ever listen to yourself?
So you throw on your skimpy dress and pray that the Good Lord keeps the perverts at bay. Between your Beyonce concert and not stalking your exes on social media, you realize that you only have 30 minutes to make it to work. Did I mention that you live Thika. No? Must have skipped my mind. So any way, that’s where you live. Beats me why too.You walk-run to the bus-stop, all decency now tucked away some place no one will ever find it. You find a matatu there all right, but there are only two seats remaining. You’re super woman (or is it witch of Eastend?), remember?You use your broomstick to fly to the window seat before your opponents can say ‘ah’.
Quite pleased with your super powers now, you can even afford to ignore the judgmental glares you’re getting from some jealous over-dressed females (Yaay feminism).You’ve just started fake-laughing to Kingangi’s Donald Trump impersonation, when God’s gift to women walks in and sits beside you. Does he even glance in your direction?Who cares? You’re gonna have his babies some day. You’re busy trying to decide between pink and peach for your theme colours, when your bony knees suddenly knock, and put a temporary halt to all this. Mr Future Husband is furiously texting on his impressive phone, with his legs wide spread, taking 250% of your leg space.
Maybe you haven’t quite made your presence felt. And make your presence felt you do. From giggling loudly to your whatsapp group messages, to leaning forward and opening the window, to fake-sneezing. Its the sneeze that finally catches his attention. You smile apologetically and discreetly wiggle your knees to draw his attention to his legs. Shrek just shakes his oblong head and further spreads his legs. The NERVE!You divorce him in your head and proceed to plot his murder. ‘Excuse me, unanifinya’. You’re close to tears now. You know how when you get angry, you cry? It’s quite embarrassing because people assume that you’re a weak cry baby. You know those tears are how you express anger, but no one ever gets it.Its happening now. You’re not about to bowl in front of all these judgmental people, angry or not.
‘Kaa vizuri boss’ You really wish you had an Eastlando accent. Homeboy looks you up and down and reluctantly moves his leg a centimeter. He trying to be Jaguar now? You’re not impressed.’Iza joh‘ Whooooah! That does it. Your inner Chimamanda takes over and you deliver an award winning lecture on just how uncouth, barbaric and flabbergasting( In retrospect, you wish you had used ‘by jove‘ in your rant.) his behaviour is. Is he treating you like this because you’re a woman?Is he trying to hit on you? Because he is so not your type (his wince, your reward). You zone out and go on and on and on. At some point you even start talking about democracy and corruption( I kid you not) By the time you come to, the culprit is long gone(he alighted at Ngara), but you still have an audience. You wait for a slow-clap but all you get is a ‘Pore madam‘ from a nice old man. Well, you hope the important message got home.
You get to the office 1 hour late.It doesn’t help that you’re dressed like a hooker in your boss’ eyes. You walk to your desk, choose to ignore your responsibilities, and do what you don’t normally do: Think. About man-spreading.